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WPI: We're great Charmed - we've been really busy, lately, actually. Thanks for coming by!
charmed: coming by to say hi and haven't seen you in along time. How are things going with your group?
akaJammiefartz: Hey i noticed u have facebook i will add u if thats ok ....cool blog u have
charmed35: coming by to say hi
Keeper: Dropped in to say HI
gaycanuck: hey sis, I'm off to the Sylvia Hotel for lunch today...I will report back lol Love ya S
lady wolfen mists: just saying hi
WPI: May 12/09: Thanks to everyone who's come by and left a note here and on the posts. You're all AWESOME!
Silver RavenSpirit: Just stopping by to check things out here. Great information on 5/8 blog.
Lyn: congrats on winning JotW
PikaBucks: COngrats for winning JOTW!!
Keeper: Stopping by to congrat you on JOTM, great blog!
WPI: Thanks ghostmom. I know they're hard to hear. I appreciate you coming by and trying though.
ghostmom35: came by to listen to evp's and its hard to hear it. very faint sounds but hard to hear it.
WPI: Thanks, Mark! It's great to know people care.
Silver RavenSpirit: Hey Sissy; stopping by to give some luv. MP and BB
WPI: Thurs. Mar.26/09: Thanks Precious. It really is a cool old place; it's just really active. It'll be interesting to hear from the owners if there's been any unusual activity...
WPI: HIYA SLANEY! Long time, no see! Thanks for the tag!
Slaneyriver: Hey Wolfie!...Just catchign uo on your blogs...
WPI: Maybe not, lucid. The investigation is just getting started, though, so anything is possible... Thanks for dropping by! :)
lucid: hi, I think at your place there is no black magick
Azodnem: I have some interesting orb shots to post up! (once I stop being lazy, and MANY ghost stories of my own to add!)
WPI: Hey Mystic & Shawn! Thanks for dropping by and saying hi! Glad you like the place!
GAYCANUCK: SLICK! I love your new site. The eveloution of a great blog...
Mystic: Great blog sis. keep up the great work that u r doing.
WPI: Thanks Tracy!
tracy: woohoo looks gr8 in here!!! 's
ParaPathways: Hey Slaney!! Thanks for swinging by! I emailed you about your comment....
Slaneyriver: Just swinging by...
Azodnem: Hail. I was just dropping by to check out and listen to some of the EVPs. Very cool!
Hazel Quinn: Holly, see my latest post! I'm off to a haunted castle on Wednesday. Have a good weekend!!!
tracy: Woo hoo i have some videos to watch tomorrow!!! 's
ParaPathways: Thurs. Nov.13/08: Hi Lynne! I have to agree about the choice of ring tones, too. It's weird how that happened, though...
Lynne: That was interesting, I did like the choice of ringers they used.
Mystic Lady: Hey holly-- great idea for a blog. If I had the time, I woulda done the same thing.. maybe one day. I've been doing a lot of my paranormal research lately and hope to post up what I got soon! Have a wonderful week and I look forward to visiting this journal more often!
tracy: ok...watched them earlier and omg talk about being freaked out!! Way cool my friend!!
tracy: Cool beans, now I can come and get the chills!! Love it off to subscribe!!
ParaPathways: Monday, Nov.3/08: I appreciate that, Shawn and Chris. Thanks so much for being so supportive...
CAPTChris: I have subscribed Holly. Nice looking site and the calvery is getting ready soon hun.
GAYCANUCK: GREAT BLOG! This topic deserves its own space! Love ya Shawno
ParaPathways: Sunday, Nov. 2/08: I see that, Amanda - thankyou. And thanks to you, too, lili, Moonie, and Hazel, for coming by and tagging me.
AmandaMagick: HELLO!!! I subscribed.
lili: remembered a few scary childhood incidents
Moonie: Great to see you journaling about these things!
Hazel Quinn: Congrats on the new journal!!!

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Tuesday, September 15th 2009

2:27 PM

A Community Divided

From a logical standpoint, it's easy to think that paranormal investigators would all work together, since this field is about study and research, and the process which helps facilitate that. Sadly, however, the cold, harsh reality is that the paranormal community is divided - not by theories, but by the investigators themselves.

People who are relatively new to the investigative aspects of this field naturally tend to gravitate to those with more experience. While this is usually a very positive and fulfilling experience, one has to be careful about who is chosen as a mentor, as there are people in this field who - knowingly or unknowingly - create an illusion that they alone know the right way to do things, and that everyone else is either wrong, or they're imagining things - unless, that is, one is "approved" in some way by the person creating this false and harmful illusion. Sadly, there are people in this field who will criticize and ridicule you, condemn you, and even lie about you outright, all the while telling you they love you and that they are your friend.

Because of these negative tendencies and behaviors, genuine discussion and exchanging of knowledge and ideas suffers.  These tendencies - which can and sometimes do involve name-calling, belittlement, and scorn - affect not only those who are striving to gain and share knowledge, they also hurt the entire field by creating instability, unreliability, and mistrust both within and without the community.

The fact of the matter is this: Anyone can become a paranormal investigator. There are no secrets to learn, no rites to perform, no expensive classes to take, and most importantly, there are no experts. Anyone can do this; about the only real challenge involved, aside from paying out of pocket for equipment and travel expenses, is that of choosing a teacher - and that's not as easy to do as you might think.

Everyone has the right to choose to become a paranormal investigator, and if I was asked what suggestions I could give to people who are interested in doing this work, I would simply say this: Be sure that you're doing it for the right reasons, and be prepared to be committed to the work. Because, as my friend Chris from C.A.P.T. says, "Once you put the coat on, it's on for life."

Have a spiritful day, and thanks for dropping by. As always, your suggestions, comments, and questions are sincerely appreciated and welcomed.


3 Comment(s).

Posted by Chris:

Very true Holly the coat never comes off and I feel the same way about no one working together well some dont some do but it is a shame.
Tuesday, September 15th 2009 @ 3:01 PM

Posted by AmandaMagick:

I agree Holly. We need to be careful in who we choose, In my life time I have met a lot of control freaks and attention whores who just will do as they do and smoosh anyone in there path whom they think is not of their caliber .... or they are just plainly stupid and don't see that they can learn from you in fact. We do need to be careful YES and just try and get that "coat" off of me... LOL
Tuesday, September 15th 2009 @ 6:48 PM

Posted by Shawno Ashmore:

Yep, sometimes jealousy creeps into the picture, and like most things unknown, eveyone wants to believe THEY know all the answers. Your approach is one of learning and acceptance. You have never come accross as a know-it-all, just a person with a gift and a curisoity to pursue it. Never let others sway you off the path of discovery. You are not in it for the money or the fame, just for the knowledge. THAT is what makes you different than most paranormal investigators. Don't let people lump you into that catagory of opportunist. You are not. Keep up the good work! I love it Your bro
Wednesday, September 16th 2009 @ 9:27 AM

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